it isnt really love or hate, its a dislike. right now the only in law i have is my brothers wife. first of all, from just the standpoint of being around her i cant stand her. from the standpoint of wanting to be friends with her or even further be involved in a long term relationship with her god i cant imagine. i really dont like the thought of him and her having kids, i dont want our families mixed up like that. she is selfish, condescending, incredibly fake/twofaced, and thoughtless. she is also very superficial, which is annoying in anybody, but annoying and down right hypocritical coming froma woman weighing close to 300 pounds.