worst feeling

[erock0609]

I least your dealing with it really well. Dump him, take a brake from everything, then find someone else . Theres a million fish in the sea and 55,733 are right here in this wonderful community Im sorry you had to find one of the rotten ones.

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[Gundari]

I can empathize completely, i was suspcious of my fiance of 5 years (found some really bad text messages on her cell phone) and then i caught her in our bed with another guy. I actually thanked her for giving me a reason to finally leave her at the time, but afterwards it hurt alot. Best thing you can do is drop his ass, take some time to yourself and id say get to know the next guy you become involved with fairly well before coming too involved. (not saying you did that this time, i just think its always good to get a good feel for someone before you dive head long into emotional attachment).

[higher4hockey]

im with fakeboobs....quit dating d-bags.

[Daveracer]

i am about 90% sure my man is cheating on me he got a call from another girl who he ditched me to go see last night and tryed to tell me it wasnt another girl on the phone. but deleted the call record, as if im that stupid. then turned the situation around on me and made me feel like i was doing something wrong. he even got me to say sorry!! then once i got home crying to my roommate he knocked some sence into me and i realized he is a liar and a cheater.
its such a horrible feeling, as far as i kno ive never been cheated on, but wow i had no clue how horrible it is. i never thought it would make me this upset. but its making me feel like i did something wrong. like im not good enough for him. it makes me feel ugly and pathetic. im done with him now. its wierd how im more upset with myself in some ways.

my heart goes out to everyone else whos been cheated on. it sucks and makes u feel worthless. right?

I've been cheated on by two different girls, and yeah, it's pretty much as bad as you're describing. You get alot of crazy thoughts running through your head when you get cheated on, and it's anything but fun.

Time heals all. End it asap, because if it drags on, it can only get worse.

[Canadian_Cron]

hey, it not that your worthless! You should be thinking about whats wrong with him, rather than why he doesnt want to be with you.

just look at it this way... he did you a big favor because youd never wanna be with an asshole like that anyway! i think its pathetic how he tried to twist it around as if you dont trust him and shit cause that doesnt have anything to do with it. Dump him dont put up with that shit.

Babe, you have got to start finding better men to date. Every guy you have dated since you joined this site has been pretty much a big piece of shit. If you don't break this cycle of dating shitheads soon, you are never going to break it because we are creatures of habit. You are young and if you keep dating shitheads that is the only thing you will know and it will become normal for you to date shitheads. Find a good man soon and stop dating losers. It is already turning into a cycle. You are feeling badly right now because of this guy and soon you will latch onto the first guy that comes along so that you can feel good about yourself and he's going to take advantage of you because he can. Then it will just start the cycle all over again.



^^^See, this is part of the cycle. It has already started. Find someone worthy of you or don't date.

That's some real good advice.

[geonagual]

I need to take you on a long steep hike...sit you atop a nice high rock overlooking the valley and smoke a nice fat bowl of some good ass weed with you and then walk back in the darkness...I guarantee you will feel better.

[couch-potato]

Hot stoner girl = deserves better than these pathetic excuses for men.

Really can't get more simple than that folks.

[420MissHighTimes420]

ur all right n made me feel better, as always.
im done with him. im proud of myself because i will normally stick with a guy through this kind of shit. but for the first time in my life im going to actually be single and im not even going to work on finding a new guy. i need to get my head straight before i can be in a relationship agian. it will be wierd and im scarred but it will be better.
fbr your so right n thanks for your honest answer. thanks everyone.
i cant wait to get off work and smoke a j watch some tv n have some me time, instead of spending time making sure i look perfect for him, and what i can do to make him happy, bc it clearly wasnt enough.
thanks AGAIN guys :hippy:

[Reefer Rogue]

Go on the Maury show and get a lie detector test.

[420MissHighTimes420]

^^^^ i would love to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i need one of those