worst feeling

[420MissHighTimes420]

i am about 90% sure my man is cheating on me he got a call from another girl who he ditched me to go see last night and tryed to tell me it wasnt another girl on the phone. but deleted the call record, as if im that stupid. then turned the situation around on me and made me feel like i was doing something wrong. he even got me to say sorry!! then once i got home crying to my roommate he knocked some sence into me and i realized he is a liar and a cheater.
its such a horrible feeling, as far as i kno ive never been cheated on, but wow i had no clue how horrible it is. i never thought it would make me this upset. but its making me feel like i did something wrong. like im not good enough for him. it makes me feel ugly and pathetic. im done with him now. its wierd how im more upset with myself in some ways.

my heart goes out to everyone else whos been cheated on. it sucks and makes u feel worthless. right?

420MissHighTimes420 Reviewed by 420MissHighTimes420 on 11-05-2007. worst feeling i am about 90% sure my man is cheating on me :( he got a call from another girl who he ditched me to go see last night and tryed to tell me it wasnt another girl on the phone. but deleted the call record, as if im that stupid. then turned the situation around on me and made me feel like i was doing something wrong. he even got me to say sorry!! then once i got home crying to my roommate he knocked some sence into me and i realized he is a liar and a cheater. its such a horrible feeling, as Rating: 5

[Unknown American]

Gosh, I am so sad for you.

No one should have to go through that.

Rest assured you are not worthless. But please stand your ground. If they cheat once they will do it again. You do not have to tolerate this.

Wish I could make it go away. But know the right person is out there. Someone who treats you with respect.

I know you will make it through this.

[friendowl]

look at this situation as a test
the powers tha be are trying to make you doubt yourself
are you that person they are making you out to be
or are you special and deserve better
dont let them twist you up
take a good look at your life and your choices

ones man trash is another mans treasure
dont give up homegirl
his loss

[FakeBoobsRule]

Babe, you have got to start finding better men to date. Every guy you have dated since you joined this site has been pretty much a big piece of shit. If you don't break this cycle of dating shitheads soon, you are never going to break it because we are creatures of habit. You are young and if you keep dating shitheads that is the only thing you will know and it will become normal for you to date shitheads. Find a good man soon and stop dating losers. It is already turning into a cycle. You are feeling badly right now because of this guy and soon you will latch onto the first guy that comes along so that you can feel good about yourself and he's going to take advantage of you because he can. Then it will just start the cycle all over again.

but its making me feel like i did something wrong. like im not good enough for him.

^^^See, this is part of the cycle. It has already started. Find someone worthy of you or don't date.

[Spoken Word]

I was gunna say something like that^ but I held back..

:thumbsup:you know what to do misshightimes.

cheating is red flag for me.. Time to move on.. Good luck.

[ReUp]

Innocent until proven guilty in my opinion.

[thcbongman]

You gotta start feeling confident about yourself.

Otherwise the same mistakes will be repeated. You do not need a man to make you feel worthy. Only you can.

[cm8883]

I feel for ya--my last relationship ended because he cheated on me, and I have been gun-shy ever since. But, it's been long enough now that I know there ARE good men out there, they just seem to be few and far between, esp. in this area.

Always remember: It's better to be alone than to be mistreated :thumbsup:

[fallenangel14]

I do feel for you in so many ways Miss, I have been there and actually caught my ex in the act while she was prego with our kid....Stand your ground and apologize no more! Dont let him turn things around on you at all. In the end he is going to slip up if its true. If it is true and when your over him, You are going to realize that he wasnt good enough for you anyway, and there are way far more better men out there, Who in their eyes..."You Are The Only Woman. He yearns for." Believe Me it will get better and you will find that "ONE" for you.....Best of luck to you in your need of time...

[FreshNugz]

Innocent until proven guilty in my opinion.

No, I'm pretty sure she's right.
Im very sorry dear...
It's happened to me, to you, and to almost everyone, so don't feel too too bad. But I can empathize with your situation.
The thing that usually seals the deal is that when you have something solid(I mean like, you couldn't be wrong. So for example, you heard a girls voice) - that can't be disputed...anyways, when you have something solid and he gets mad at you and freaks out...9 times out of 10 you're right.
Im so sorry, but keep your chin up. Fuck that loser! Smoke a blunt!