gf problems.. laame

[macro]

It's painfully obvious you don't have a gf.

lol i was thinking the same thing :P

[crudemood]

this seems to happen in alot of relationships. people start to change and get distant its either because they're no longer interested OR that you get sick of someone's personality because its getting too predictable. and you know how predictable can get boring sometimes.

ts happened to me plenty with just friends though.. i think they're all cool and the beginning and i love talking with you know chilling with them but then as goes on i find that i dont want to hang out with them anymore mostly because they're not all i put up to be. i start to see undesirable flaws which i wish i never found in them. but you know. that doesnt mean i hate them and what them out of my life i just don't love them at the same degree that i did in the beginning, which to me is what i see MIGHT be happening to you and your gf. but thats just me. whether its true in your case or not. you have to find out .

[Unknown American]

You have got to talk to her in person and say basically what you said in the first post.

That you love her, she's amazing. But she doesn't communicate ANYTHING with you.

It seems now she's becoming distant, she doesn't get close to you anymore she doesn't seem as happy as she used to.

Talk to her in person. If you love her you need to know what is up.

I have been where you are before and I did not communicate with her and I ended up loosing the relationship.

Learn where you stand. That is the best thing to do.

[Canadian_Cron]

if she wanted 2 hang out she would have... so i vote d.

[Reefer Rogue]

Maybe she doesn't like your smoking and will only tell you when you break up like my ex g/f...

[hreskofreight4]

i think you should eat her and the problem will be gone.

[Mississippi Steve]

It's painfully obvious you don't have a gf.

I wouldn't bet on that because you would be wrong.

Both myself and my GF of 8 years are both over 50, both of us have been married twice.

Many times we have talked about what would have happened if we had found each other many years earlier. We decided that had we met earlier, it wouldn't have worked because the time wasn't right.

Everything happens when its supposed to. OTOH, life is what happens while you were making other plans.

Don't be in a big hurry to get tied down(married), live some first. I figure that a good age to get married is around 30. That give you a chance to do what you want to do, and get on track with a career.
If you want to travel, do it *before* you get married, because the chances of doing it afterwards are slim....especially when kids come along...then all bets are off.

Back to the OP's post... As I said earlier... she probably has somebody else on the hook, or she's playing games. Either way, its time to cut your losses and look for something else.

[Comatose]

Tokers and nontokers do mix. My woman and I lead by example.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

I don't toke, and my hubby does. But I grow, and support what I believe should be his right to toke.
Mississippi Steve, I don't advocate cutting anyone loose based on supposition. He should communicate with her first.

[geonagual]

Keep toking:jointsmile: