My new beau has a kink that freaks me out a little...

[geonagual]

Sounds like everything worked out well...It is just better to get out early..Back to the drawing board..that is where I am right now. LOL

[GreenLadyOfDankDowns]

I've found that the older I get, the stranger the men who take an interest in me tend to be. It's sort of annoying, but there isn't much I can do about it. I just have to keep sorting through the ones who flitter my way and hope that I'll find a keeper before I turn into a crone.

Of course, I could end up being one of these people who don't find their true mate until I'm well up there in years. I saw a wedding announcement in the paper the other day for a couple who were in their 70's. On one hand, its sad because they won't have much time together, but on the other it's very sweet that they did find one another and are getting married.

[luvbud]

Sounds like this guy has homosexual tendencies. It is best you call it quits if you are not comfortable with his requests. There is someone out there for you just be patient.

[LiquidMagik]

Wow, alot of people claiming homosexual tendencies, yet if you read ANY expert report, it will claim that most men that will request anal stimulation are the ones that are TRULY COMFORTABLE in their own sexuality. Think about it, when I jerk off, it's my hand on my penis. A MAN'S hand. Does that mean I want some other dude to jerk me off? No!

I remember the first time I got a rim job. It wasn't even me who requested it. I was dating a girl at the time, and she asked if she could give one to me. I was extremely reluctant at first, but after she convinced me - OMFG! I started realizing then that anal play would only add to my pleasure, not detract from it. Yes, I've taken a tongue, finger, hell even the STRAP ON, in the ass. It was pleasurable everytime, and everytime, each of those appendages was attached to a female (either naturally or with belts/straps). Now, if it was a guy who had his dick in my ass, and I was turned on, then I'm a homosexual. Fact is, I think the male figure is disgusting. So let's see here, if you like a member of the opposite sex, you are a heterosexual. If you like a member of the same sex, you are homosexual. Period. Nothing like, "Well, I like chicks, but I also like things in my ass. No I've never had the urge to kiss a guy." Know what that means? That you're heterosexual. The key phrases in that sentence were, "I like chicks," and "I've never had the urge to kiss a guy." Whether or not you like anal has no bearing on your sexual orientation. Now, I'm not into the whole beating thing, but to each his own. As long as they aren't hurting anyone (against that person's will), then what's the problem?

I think the major fault was that the person never entered the situation before making a judgment on that they wouldn't like it. How many times did you think you wouldn't like a plate of food growing up, but mom made you eat it anyway, and WOW!, turns out I like it! Now, you would have never known that if you went with your gut instinct, but you gave it a whirl, and left better than you went in. If it was gross, then you just spit it out and know not to try it again. Same thing with the situation, start out, if you feel uncomfortable, stop, and don't do it again. But who knows, you may like it! Check out sexuality on hipforums, there's girls over there that PRAY they'll run into a guy that wants to be bent over, as they want to see what it's like on the other side of things.

Now, I'm not one to knock people with fetishes, as I have a cupboard full of my own. My current girlfriend was weirded out by some on paper, but when she went through with some of them, it turns out she likes to play as well! Why do I have so many?

Truth is, some get bored with vanilla sex. There's only so many positions you can do, only so many different rooms in the house you can have sex in, so if you want something different, the only thing left to change is the actual style of sex itself, or your persona. Hence - roleplay, golden showers, strap-ons, threesomes, group sex, etc.

I'm guessing most of the guys in here that are "ass-a-phobes," are under 20 years old. Hopefully you'll revisit this thread in 5 years after your sex life has been revolutionized with anal play.

[dragonrider]

Steve, when I actually tried them, I was surprised to find that I actually DO like Brussels sprouts! So now I'm thinking maybe I WILL dress up as a pimp, strap on a big rubber dick, give you a good hard ass-raping, while I bitch-slap you silly and call you Stephanie. It's really just a big sexual Brussels sprout, isn't it?

[LiquidMagik]

Steve, when I actually tried them, I was surprised to find that I actually DO like Brussels sprouts! So now I'm thinking maybe I WILL dress up as a pimp, strap on a big rubber dick, give you a good hard ass-raping, while I bitch-slap you silly and call you Stephanie. It's really just a big sexual Brussels sprout, isn't it?

It was a figure of speech. I'm surprised you didn't come back with, "Well, I've never tasted shit either, but I'm in no rush to do that!" But at least you had actually seen shit, known what it was composed of, known what it smells like, BEFORE you made that decision. In theory, you interacted with the shit before you made a decision. Not so in this case...

[GreenLadyOfDankDowns]

I respect his right to seek whatever sexual fulfillment he needs, but I know that this is something I can do without. I've had past paramours try to coax me into one fetish after another. I know my sexual limits and which hang-ups I can't overcome. I've tried my fair share of Brussels Sprouts, and must state for the record, I'd rather have Asparagus.

[beachguy in thongs]

GreenLady, of course, those are homosexual tendencies, but, I'd say, they are a bit more towards the curiosity of femininity. That's if you look at it in a good light.

He must've blown your mind because he hasn't even had sex with you, and, he's already told you that he likes it up the arse.

I am not touching this story with a ten foot pole. Sorry.

[potsmokingnome]

You know Gnome, none of this seemed funny to me yesterday, but having smoked two joints in the past two hours, and the way you wrote that, it's too funny. I honestly don't know how it is that I manage to draw all the super freaks. It's like I have Rick James as my guardian angel. :S5:

Oh lady of the danks! I'm sorry ya seem to attract super freaks, like a prostituite with a strap on up his ass! But I'm sure one day you will find someone that makes dating all those freaks worth it. Each relationship is a lessoned learned, and isn't truly a mistake unless you don't learn from it. You shall find the right guy someday, and you'll get very high along the way! so keep smillin, and lookin foward, yesterday was just a memories of the past, nothin more, nothin less.

[dragonrider]

I am not touching this story with a ten foot pole. Sorry.

I think that if we were to dig deeper into Steve's fetishes, we would find that he is actually very interested in being touched with a ten-foot pole.