I'm proud of you, Greenlady, for recognizing where you felt comfortable going and where you didn't, then letting him know. I suspect there are a lotta people in the world who'd sell out and comply even if it made them uncomfortable. You didn't.

Don't think those were fetishes, Couch Potato. Fetishes are a bit different. The guy had a fairly high-flying masochistic freak flag. Which he's certainly free to fly. I'm a big believer in people doing what makes them happy. He just needs to find another sort of lady to aid him in his particular brand of fun. That desire for super-rough treatment and hard anal rape w/ a strap-on makes me real suspicious something was up with that dude from his past. Play is one thing. But in his desires, there's potential for serious physical damage. Somehow that isn't sexy.

Keep fishin, GreenLady.