Honesty is the best policy.

"Listen, (his name), I am uncomfortable about this whole dildo request, but I am open-minded and willing to try it once. If I don't like it after I try it, I'll let you know."

Then it is up to you to figure the following: yes, it's weird, yes it's kinky, but nobody will get hurt, so why not try it?

You may be uncomfortable doing it, but at least you gave it a fair shot, and heck, you may surprise yourself and get into it. The only way to know is to find out.
TheSmokingMonkey Reviewed by TheSmokingMonkey on . My new beau has a kink that freaks me out a little... I just started dating a fella, and while we haven't had sex as of yet we have discussed sexuality. We were very open and honest with one another which I like, but I'm a little worried about one of his kinks. He told me he is really into having his partner strap on a dildo and well... you get the picture. :wtf: I've never done this before and I have a few concerns. First and foremost, does he have latent homosexual tendencies or is this normal for some straight men? Have any of you ladies Rating: 5