Well, we've talked and now I'm even more unsure of this guy. Yes he likes being dominated, which wouldn't bother me if it was the regular run of the mill "Tie me up and spank me!" kind of domination. His idea is for him to get dressed up like a female prostitute, and have me treat him like I'm his pimp. He wants me to be supremely rough with him (like punching him in the face with my fists and beating him with a cane), and basically anally rape him, all while calling him Stephanie. :wtf: I told him I would really have to sit down and think about all of this. I really like Steve, he's a nice guy and outside of the bedroom we have a lot in common, but I'm thinking I'm way too vanilla in my sexual proclivities to please him in the long run. He said he hopes I can accept his desires because he likes me a lot and is tired of being rejected by small minded women because of this issue. I wouldn't consider myself small minded, and don't want him to think of me in that way, but honestly I just can't see myself ever being comfortable with what turns him on the most. He's leaving early in the morning for a business trip out of state and will be gone until Wednesday, so I have three days to work up the nerve to tell him I just can't get into his fetish play. This really sucks, just once I'd like to meet a guy and not have it fizzle out because of weird bullshit.