My new beau has a kink that freaks me out a little...

[TheSmokingMonkey]

Honesty is the best policy.

"Listen, (his name), I am uncomfortable about this whole dildo request, but I am open-minded and willing to try it once. If I don't like it after I try it, I'll let you know."

Then it is up to you to figure the following: yes, it's weird, yes it's kinky, but nobody will get hurt, so why not try it?

You may be uncomfortable doing it, but at least you gave it a fair shot, and heck, you may surprise yourself and get into it. The only way to know is to find out.

[dragonrider]

You may be uncomfortable doing it, but at least you gave it a fair shot, and heck, you may surprise yourself and get into it. The only way to know is to find out.

Cross-dreesing roll-playing bitch-slapping strap-on-dildo ass rape is not exactly like trying broccoli --- you might know you don't like it even before you try it.

[420punk]

Alright, you should do it, but be so hard, so rough, and so rude that he wouldn't possibly want to do it again.

[trainwreck530]

:wtf3: woah bro-no! dropped my lighter on that one...

this is not normal. i cant imagine what kind of guy would like to have this done to him. i am *not* against homosexuality, but no way man. exity only MFs aint NO ONE sticking a damn dildo up donnys deal.

its just not sexy, its not cool, dirk diggler wouldnt agree
:twocents:

[Markass]

I guess the simplest way would be to ask him how he started thinking about the desire to be bonked in the butt by a chick with a dick. ...

lmao, that's great, stinky! :stoned::thumbsup:

[birdgirl73]

I'm proud of you, Greenlady, for recognizing where you felt comfortable going and where you didn't, then letting him know. I suspect there are a lotta people in the world who'd sell out and comply even if it made them uncomfortable. You didn't.

Don't think those were fetishes, Couch Potato. Fetishes are a bit different. The guy had a fairly high-flying masochistic freak flag. Which he's certainly free to fly. I'm a big believer in people doing what makes them happy. He just needs to find another sort of lady to aid him in his particular brand of fun. That desire for super-rough treatment and hard anal rape w/ a strap-on makes me real suspicious something was up with that dude from his past. Play is one thing. But in his desires, there's potential for serious physical damage. Somehow that isn't sexy.

Keep fishin, GreenLady.

[O. G. ganja smoker]

you should of pimp slapped him:jointsmile: lol but dont trip that dude was a phsyco in disguise wish i lived in viginia u seem like a nice girl any man would be lucky to get with you and u get high thats a major pluss your better off not finding anything else out about this guy spare u the phsycological scars but trust me you WILL find the right guy just dont be in a rush :hippy:

[robbyg]

Steve is the type of sicko that will scour craigslist for playmates, he's not too much VANILLA honey, he's too much DISTURBED. The definition of a MAN does not have anything to do with taking it up the ass while being beaten and called Stephanie.

I think you made the right move in letting this one go.


puff puff pass honey keep that cherry a burnin'

robby

[TresLeches]

I heard that the guy's G Spot is in his ass. This is not good.

[GreenLadyOfDankDowns]

LOL, I thought this thread had died. Tres, you're thinking of the prostate which is sort of like the male "G" spot.