WHOAH! first thats first i have read that fact. BUT NONE THE LESS, tell him. If you are afraid he might see you in a different way after you tell him, think of this. what if you didnt tell him and got really serious with him, like you plan on doing, and then someone tells him and he changes, then your in a worse situation. I say tell him now, so you still have time to analyze his reaction. Before making any MAJOR future decisions.