*** READ*** OK, this is a very sensitive issue for me, so if you've got something crass to say or insensitive, I'd rather you not post a reply.

I've decided that I'm going to commit to a relationship with the man I've sort of been seeing for the past six years, and possibly marry him. I still haven't made up my mind about children, bu the loves them and is great with all of his nephews and friends kids. he wants children so badly, and i am honestly considering it because i know that no matter how much of a shitty parent i might be, he will be a great dad and hes such a good guy that he deserves to be happy, and if i can help give him that, it will make me happy. Now, he doesn't know about me being sexually abused by my step-father, and i don't know whether its something i should share with him. Its not a trust issue, i trust him completely, but i don't want him to change the way he sees me. As of right now he thinks of me as a strong, independent, fiery woman who needs no one to stand on her own two feet, which i am, but he doesn't know about how vulnerable i feel once i tell someone of my past. I don't want him to feel sorry for me, its just that by telling him, it would explain alot of my personality an my actions, and it would help for him to understand why i feel the way i do about some things. He is one of the only men i trust, and i know he wouldn't use it to hurt me one day, but i cant help but still, after all these years, and yes, i realize it wasn't my fault, to still feel ashamed. I feel that this is something that he should know about, its not a big secret, my sister, my best friend, Momma (not my mother), and y'all know, but i don't think i should wait for him to hear it from someone else. So.. should i tell him?
Hilder420 Reviewed by Hilder420 on . Should I tell him? *** READ*** OK, this is a very sensitive issue for me, so if you've got something crass to say or insensitive, I'd rather you not post a reply. I've decided that I'm going to commit to a relationship with the man I've sort of been seeing for the past six years, and possibly marry him. I still haven't made up my mind about children, bu the loves them and is great with all of his nephews and friends kids. he wants children so badly, and i am honestly considering it because i know that no Rating: 5