Void, I'm going to apologize to you upfront .. only because what I have to say is probably not going to "sound" really positive to you in this venue ..

First off, man, talk about tense and hostile from the jump?! What is up with that? From your second sentence, "Tonight she went to some fucking halloween party for her work, " you told on yourself that you were uptight and not feeling this whole thing AT ALL. I dont think your g/f stood a chance of avoiding your blow-up. Sounds like you were itchin' to let it go. Not sure if there are other things in your relationship to predicate this (my guess, there probably are), but you should step back and read your post again. You may not realize whats there.

'Nuff said about that ...

She's YOUR girl, and sounds like she's right back at your side, where you both feel she belongs. Unless you have a valid reason to blow off your relationship with her, why do it?

Best of luck to you friend, I hope it all works out for you both :hippy:

Blaze on brotha .. blaze on :rastasmoke: