Quote Originally Posted by cutecalikitty
Void, I'm going to apologize to you upfront .. only because what I have to say is probably not going to "sound" really positive to you in this venue ..

First off, man, talk about tense and hostile from the jump?! What is up with that? From your second sentence, "Tonight she went to some fucking halloween party for her work, " you told on yourself that you were uptight and not feeling this whole thing AT ALL. I dont think your g/f stood a chance of avoiding your blow-up. Sounds like you were itchin' to let it go. Not sure if there are other things in your relationship to predicate this (my guess, there probably are), but you should step back and read your post again. You may not realize whats there.

'Nuff said about that ...

She's YOUR girl, and sounds like she's right back at your side, where you both feel she belongs. Unless you have a valid reason to blow off your relationship with her, why do it?

Best of luck to you friend, I hope it all works out for you both :hippy:

Blaze on brotha .. blaze on :rastasmoke:

that probably the best advice anyone could ever give. thanks, because what you just said is exactly how i feel, its probably not enought to break up with someone over. but i'm just pissed because she fucking lied to me. she made it sound like she didn't do shit with any guys all night then i see this picture with her fucking ass in some guys crotch. she lied. and about what you said i was waiting to let something go. our whole relationship my g/f acts like her shit don't stink. its always me fucking something up. then the first time she REALLY fucks up i'm like expected to let it go. because fucking believe me if she saw a picture with my crotch up some girls ass i swear we would not be together.

so how am i suppose to feel confident in my decision to just get over it when if it were me she would totally dump my ass. and i still am mad.