am i overreacting?

[ReUp]

its annoying because everytime i close my eyes i imagine this picture with my girlfriends ass in this morons crotch while hes all grinning up a storm.

whoa dude chill the fuck out. get over it.

ReUp Reviewed by ReUp on 10-31-2007. am i overreacting? so i have my girlfriend, been dating for like a year and 2 months. she moved to NY for a bit before she moves back with me as soon as possible. Tonight she went to some fucking halloween party for her work, and off the back i was annoyed but i didn't wanna be all oppressive and tell her what she cant and can do. so i told her no dancing with guys please. she said i promise i won't. she goes, i go to the skatepark, i'm a little edgy all night and then on my way home she calls me. we have small Rating: 5

[VoidLivesOn]

whoa dude chill the fuck out. get over it.

what would you have done?

[ReUp]

what would you have done?

Nothing man thats how chicks dance.

[cutecalikitty]

Void, remember you do have 2yrs invested .. not saying thats alot of time, but it definitely warrants NOT breaking up after 1 party ..

If she keeps you this high strung and stressed out all the time, you may need to give serious consideration to whether or not she is the girl for you. Having someone in your life should make you feel secure and good .. not tense like you seem to feel ALOT of the time ..

She's not the only fish in the sea, nor is she the worse bitch on earth .. try to find a happy understanding in the middle or tell her to kick rocks .. Seems like you have alot of feelings for her, so maybe once you have a chance to just chill out and relax you will feel better.

Much love to ya! Hang tough .. get high often! :hippy:

[VoidLivesOn]

Nothing man thats how chicks dance.

alright we could talk after you saw a picture of me or some other guy humping your long term g/fs ass to shitty music.

[Country Cow Freak]

I do feel you are overreacting to the fact that she was dancing with some dude. And the grind is really no big deal. Heck, I was at a good friends birthday party the other night and his mother was giving me the bump and grind.

The part that I feel you are righteously upset about is the fact that she told you she wouldn't and then lied to you about it. Trust is one of the biggest thing in a relationship (especially in a long distance one). This is what I feel you should concentrate on.

Best of luck,

CCF

[thcbongman]

Nothing man thats how chicks dance.

There is a difference between just grinding, and grinding a hole in his pants. I done both, and there's a huge difference.

Chick that are loyal to their boyfriends usually keep some buffer room. I grinded with chicks who went with their boyfriends who couldn't or didn't want to dance, and I sure didn't grind a hole in their pants, I actually went out of my way sometimes so they could see I'm being respectful. If I saw a dude grind a hole in my gf's pants, I'd get mad as well. It's normal.

[VoidLivesOn]

i know i'll make alot of enemies saying this, but maybe this is why i got so pissed off. to ME the grind is fucking worthless and usually so is the music people GRIND to. that is my opinion though. and the way i think like this is because i like being in a normal relationship. not like the ones people in my high school, and people out of high school have(preferrabley irresponsible "clubbers), where they go to parties, drunk or not, and dance with someone else like they don't have respect for the person they say they love everyday. and maybe thats why those relationships never lasted more then a month and they always did stupid shit like get drunk and dry hump someone else at a shitty party.

[thcbongman]

If your g/f grinds, why don't you do it with her?

With someone you love, grinding is an amazing experience. You can easily make her cum just doing so. It can be sensual with the right person and right music.

And it can just be a fun, dirty, sexed up dance. It just depends.

But you gotta try it before you knock it.

Grinding isn't just high school bro. College....after college....so on and on.

[VoidLivesOn]

i just feel stupid dancing, i liked it when i was a kid and showing off...but i don't know. maybe its the social clashes with the music and all...i just can't stand it.

i can do a sick ass worm though.