I'm not sure if im more confused or more informed now >.>

Well i was using a pytherin spray, and it was working to keep the lil buggers under control. As for the effects of the neem, i just checked on the plant for the first time since the applications of it yesterday(i sprayed the underside of the leaves, probably wont do that again), the leaves are about the same color green but they are a bit droopy and some of them are rather fragile and dried out. Gonna give it another day and see what direction it goes from here before i do anything else.

edit: typos.