this is like one of those quintissential life experiances dealing with relationships that you have to choose to be a schmuck or a dick and face reality. you'd be a schmuck if you got back with her and didn't tell her because lets face it...how would you feel if she let some dude lick her pussy and didn't tell you. and you would be a dick if you told her because lets face it what you did was fucked up.

it all revolves around guilt and how much of it you can swallow. and remember if you don't tell her karma's a bitch and a half. and i don't really believe in karma i've just always wanted to say that.