You and i are in the same boat sorta, only im a girl.....

what i did is, over the summer i hooked up with a co worker of my now current roommate. they werent good friends at the time, i was single, he had broken up with his gf. so we slept together multiple times, its just sex, i dont want to date him. hes not looking for anything either.

however, he is now back with this girl, and they are together in a serious way and she is constantly coming over to my house with him to hang out with my roommates and myself. The worst part is, shes super nice, a good person and i would love to be friends with her....buti did a pretty awful thing to her that she doesnt know about and it eats me up inside.

i feel awful about it, and would NEVER have had sex with him if i had known.

you make your bed you know. I have to deal with the fact that i make stupid choices....it builds character...or something. lets just put it this way, lesson learned. i feel like a crap knowing that im the girl he slept with while they were fighting, i feel like a home wrecker. And i will remember how this feels for the rest of my life.

You can take some solace in the fact that at least you arent the only one that screws up, we all do at some point.