Feeling ashamed HELP!

[friendowl]

when you get older your going to wish you took more advantage of the carnivores

[Struck420]

honestly i see a problem which is you may have an STD but i don't see a reason why you should be mad that you got head when you weren't even dating your girlfriend i can see why you'd be ashamed if she was nasty but mabe we have different values, actually from your post im sure we do but good luck with your ex-gf (now gf again?) and i hope you dont get an std :thumbsup:

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

I am having a hard time feeling sorry for someone that just shot his load off into some girls mouth. But that is just me.

:S2::S2::S2::S2::S2::S2::computerlove1:

[sm0k1t]

Hey dude think about the fact that people do alot worst than that and you technically did not cheat on your gf so all is good!
And you got head without protection with a not so hot chick...so what!! Believe me I did worse and I'm not proud of it...actually it was stupid but no consequences followed and thank god for that!
Hope you wont have problems regarding that though

peace

[illnillinois]

sex is never worth dying for, or at lease getting sick over.



but back to the topic at hand.

i feel ashed when I yell at the little ones in my life, better yet my wife. I hate the way i feel if i lost my temper and say things i dont mean.

:S1:

[Reefer Rogue]

You should feel ashamed, very ashamed. At least you recognize this. Cheaters like you deserve what you may get. Harsh? Maybe so, but i don't believe you deserve your girlfriend after what you did. Blah blah mistake mistake i was wasted, excuse excuse. You should do this girl a favour and face the music like a man.

[Vino]

You and i are in the same boat sorta, only im a girl.....

what i did is, over the summer i hooked up with a co worker of my now current roommate. they werent good friends at the time, i was single, he had broken up with his gf. so we slept together multiple times, its just sex, i dont want to date him. hes not looking for anything either.

however, he is now back with this girl, and they are together in a serious way and she is constantly coming over to my house with him to hang out with my roommates and myself. The worst part is, shes super nice, a good person and i would love to be friends with her....buti did a pretty awful thing to her that she doesnt know about and it eats me up inside.

i feel awful about it, and would NEVER have had sex with him if i had known.

you make your bed you know. I have to deal with the fact that i make stupid choices....it builds character...or something. lets just put it this way, lesson learned. i feel like a crap knowing that im the girl he slept with while they were fighting, i feel like a home wrecker. And i will remember how this feels for the rest of my life.

You can take some solace in the fact that at least you arent the only one that screws up, we all do at some point.

[Charles U Farley]

(a) Don't tell her, but treat her like a queen.
(b) Don't have sex until you've been tested. (tell her you just want to "take it slow".)
(c) Remember how much of an ass you feel like now, and don't do it again!

Granny

Amen!!

[GraziLovesMary]

Man he sounded so ashamed of it, I thought he cheated with a dude.

Chill out and stop feeling sorry for yourself.

If you want advice, listen to Granny. As far as im concerned, shes The Oracle.

[VoidLivesOn]

this is like one of those quintissential life experiances dealing with relationships that you have to choose to be a schmuck or a dick and face reality. you'd be a schmuck if you got back with her and didn't tell her because lets face it...how would you feel if she let some dude lick her pussy and didn't tell you. and you would be a dick if you told her because lets face it what you did was fucked up.

it all revolves around guilt and how much of it you can swallow. and remember if you don't tell her karma's a bitch and a half. and i don't really believe in karma i've just always wanted to say that.