Feeling ashamed HELP!

[stinkyattic]

jacked, you already have the strength to admit this not only to yourself, but to admit it publicly- keep up that momentum. Keep feeling strong.

[home.grower]

Forget it!! It happened!! Maybe manufacture the idea in you head that she made it happen because you weren't fully in control of your faculties, and think of yourself being smarter in future. It could be worse.. You could have poked it and be having an unplanned child on the way, or mushrooms growin out the side of your manhood. Stick to blowjobs and your regrets will be minimal.

Gee, one guy in one thread saying he ain't ever had a girl or somethin, and a next guy can't keep his bits to himself.. You should trade places for a day to two..

[home.grower]

...i realized that i am a f*cked up person and i need help. i have decided that i will in fact tell my girlfriend about what happened (not anytime soon though because i need her in my life right now). i have also decided i am no longer drinking, doing drugs, or anything else along those lines. i am going to get some counseling help, and i am going to stop being selfish and start living my life for the people i love....

I think, If you are turning a new leaf you should demonstrate it by telling her while see can see you going thru your transition. Not telling her is kinda selfish in itself. What if she found out? That might fk ur sht up.. She, whoever she is might be willing and able to support you more than you know. But, do what you gotta do!