I'm taking sides with the dude. Not completely, but you can't blame a dude who is clueless to what a girl is feeling.

I'll bet anyone here that if she said directly to him "hey I'm not interested in you," he wouldn't show up.

I give you the classic line on why guys would keep calling, coming over, etc.:

""Maybe. IM me tomorrow when I get out of work and we'll figure out what to do."

What hint did you give him other than, IM me tomorrow? How does that equate "I'm not interested in you?"

You girls think you being "nice" giving "hints" but really you are being very rude, for not saying how you are really feeling and wasting his time.

Frankly neither of you made it clear, instead you are dragging them both like dogs on a leash. We define this as "playing games."

You dug your own graves by playing games, whether you are aware of this or not.
thcbongman Reviewed by thcbongman on . Guy that doesnt get the hint I feel kind of bad. here is the story. i went to the bar and met this guy, and he came back to my place to hang out. i sent him home, i didnt sleep with him because really im known for being self destructive and having issues with the men i sleep with. i met him for coffee the next day, and he came over to my place the day after. the third night hanging out with him he spent the night. now he is a nice enough guy, but i dont know him all that well yet. Now im a student its Rating: 5