I feel kind of bad. here is the story.

i went to the bar and met this guy, and he came back to my place to hang out. i sent him home, i didnt sleep with him because really im known for being self destructive and having issues with the men i sleep with.

i met him for coffee the next day, and he came over to my place the day after.

the third night hanging out with him he spent the night.

now he is a nice enough guy, but i dont know him all that well yet. Now im a student its midterm time, near the end of it, and i have lots of work i need to do, so i told him that. I honestly was not blowing him off, i had work to do.

i was working on a paper, and i told him i would take a rain check on getting together. He showed up at my house, to the back door where there is no doorbell. i was outside having a smoke.

so he asked me for a cig, so i said ok...kind of annoyed he came over when im doing work. school is my job, so when im busy you cant just show up here and expect me to drop what im doing. and he did.

he asked if he could come in, and i was annoyed so i said no, i will be out here until im done smoking and going inside to do my work.

then he asked me if i would give him a bowl to smoke. now i wasnt smoking weed when i was outside, we smoke weed in our house just not cigs because the smell lingers more with cigs. furthermore i was stone sober. why would he think im going to give him cigarettes and weed if he just shows up? If it was someone i was dating seriously i wouldnt care and i likely would give them a gram and send them on their way or let them stay while i doing work. but i hardly know this guy.

you cant just show up at my house after knowing me a total of about 24 hours when you amalgamate the evenings and ask me for things like that.

I have stopped taking his phone calls, and i was pretty clear when he left here the other night that i was mega pissed off and yet he keeps calling.

Maybe i seem like im over reacting by cutting him out and not taking his calls....but I have had a bad history with men using me and not treating me right, so this set off warning signs for sure.

I just wish he would stop calling because i was pretty clear with him when he left my back steps not to bother calling me.
Vino Reviewed by Vino on . Guy that doesnt get the hint I feel kind of bad. here is the story. i went to the bar and met this guy, and he came back to my place to hang out. i sent him home, i didnt sleep with him because really im known for being self destructive and having issues with the men i sleep with. i met him for coffee the next day, and he came over to my place the day after. the third night hanging out with him he spent the night. now he is a nice enough guy, but i dont know him all that well yet. Now im a student its Rating: 5