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06-23-2008, 05:59 PM #35Senior Member
Women and Porn?
Originally Posted by katyowns
I think there are a few reasons. I think real female orgasms don't translate well to film --- you really have to be there for it to enjoy it. At least in my expereniece female orgasms are more internalized than the flamboyant externalized screaming orgasms that you see in porn. Women sort of seem to me to sink into themselves in a way at the moment they have a true, full-blown orgasm. For some women, it seems like it is the quietist part of the whole sex act. There may be a lot of spasms, trembling, facial contortions, toe curling, muscle clenching, and squealing, but most of it wouldn't transalte as well onto film as a lot of the overblowm moisemaking you see in porn. Some of it is not photogenic at all. I'd certainy prefer to see the authentic thing, but I see why they tend to go more theatrical.
And real female orgasms are not always easy to manufacture on demand, so it's not surprising they have them "fake it" so often for the sake of the movie and its timing.
And then there is the audience, who is probably predominantly male. Many men get excited by a lot of noisy sex. And many men also have fantasies about horny women who want to serve them sexually. That's probably why you get a lot of fake pleasure noises coming from the women during parts of the movie where it is clearly they guy who is enjoying it more.
What I think is kind of wierd is the fakeness of the male oragsms too. A lot of these guys in these movies seem to be enjoying the sex a lot less than I think most people actually enjoy it. Most of the time they just seem to pump away for what seems like forever, not really seeming to get into it, then when it's time to finish up, they pull out and jerk themselves off on the chick, without a lot of enjoyment either. At least the girl fakes having a good time.
Porn is fun to watch, but you almost never see what would be a really great real-life sexual experience for both partners, with a lot of goofing off, playing around, and laughing, moving toward a lot of grunting, squealing, spasming, and facial contortions, and ending with both partners laying around panting and imobilized, like a couple of non-photogenic beached whales. I guess it just doesn't make for as good of a movie.
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