Being a woman, we are weary of 'nice guy syndrome' - "I do everything for her and she doesn't give a damn" kinda guys - who, upon rejection, will quick as a flash turn homicidal and post in their blog about burning your family's house to the ground. In those cases "I do everything for her" becomes "FUCKING WHORE ILL RAPE YOU STUPID".

But that's the occasional psycho guy. They ARE out there, so we gotta look out for ourselves, as do the men. Maybe the object of your affection is just a little wary - looking out for her safety.

I tried to go into some philosophical tangent here, but I'm stoned.