Being a nice guy.......

[Zwitter]

Being a woman, we are weary of 'nice guy syndrome' - "I do everything for her and she doesn't give a damn" kinda guys - who, upon rejection, will quick as a flash turn homicidal and post in their blog about burning your family's house to the ground. In those cases "I do everything for her" becomes "FUCKING WHORE ILL RAPE YOU STUPID".

But that's the occasional psycho guy. They ARE out there, so we gotta look out for ourselves, as do the men. Maybe the object of your affection is just a little wary - looking out for her safety.

I tried to go into some philosophical tangent here, but I'm stoned.

[Gandalf_The_Grey]

Being a woman, we are weary of 'nice guy syndrome' - "I do everything for her and she doesn't give a damn" kinda guys - who, upon rejection, will quick as a flash turn homicidal and post in their blog about burning your family's house to the ground. In those cases "I do everything for her" becomes "FUCKING WHORE ILL RAPE YOU STUPID".

But that's the occasional psycho guy. They ARE out there, so we gotta look out for ourselves, as do the men. Maybe the object of your affection is just a little wary - looking out for her safety.

I tried to go into some philosophical tangent here, but I'm stoned.

You're not a woman, you're a hermaphrodite! Did you think we wouldn't read your screen-name? Or does it go on a day to day basis?

[thcbongman]

A co-worker once told me "the worst thing a guy can do is tell me he's nice. If a guy tells me he's nice, I'll assume it's because he's not. If a guy was really nice, he wouldn't need to say it, he would prove it."

[VoidLivesOn]

Being a Security Officer in the ghettos of Downtown Toronto has jaded me a lot. Not so much as that I am not a nice guy anymore, but I do have a lot less sympathy for people who aren't willing to hack it in life, as well as becoming wiser to the ways of people who make a living off of deception and guile.

That being said, I have been taken advantage of a lot by women... wait, girls... when I was in high school because of my 'nice guy' image. It also led one of the football players to pull a knife on me and mug me for a half quarter one day after school. That was 2 years ago, when I weighed 135 and was all skin and bones. I'm 190 lbs now, and I _will not_ let a girl walk all over me again, similarly, I won't hesitate to beat the piss out of some fool who tries to pull a shank on me.

Being a nice guy doesn't mean avoid confrontation, or being happy with simply getting along with everyone, because there are people who will take advantage of you.

Like Rocky said: "The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody isn't gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you can hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward."

Be a nice guy, because its a good thing to be an easy-going, enjoyable, smart person to be around.

Don't be a nice guy for the sake of being a nice guy.

rocky is this shit

[MadSativa]

this is a good question but I dont know how too answer it, everytime Im the nice guy I get fucked, And being asertive and commanding makes you look like a hard ass asshole, but some one has to get mutha fukas in line and check muafukas, so I dont know. Be as nice as you can as you stomp someones teeth into their skull or dont lie often helps let them know, whats up. Good question

[TheSmokingMonkey]

Good traits of "nice guys":
they are considerate of others' feelings
they won't piss off your parents
they feel obligated to bring home a paycheck
they'll walk your chihuahua for you without complaint

Bad traits of "nice guys":
they care too much about what other people think
one day, they might go postal because they've been bottling up their feelings
they lie all the time to keep the peace
they can be boring cause they work too hard
they can be sellouts cause they want to be good citizens

It goes both ways on nice guys. It's better to be a guy with integrity who will take the truth as the authority and not the authority as the truth.

But that being said, being an asshole won't get you very far with women of quality.