How would you ask someone to marry you.

[higher4hockey]

im going to hide a ring in the bottom of her copenhagen can...

[someuser]

I would wait until you at least in your late 20s.... *Most* kids are not mature enough until then.

Well said.

Getting married young is almost always going to lead in a bad direction down the road *these days*.

I was with a girl for almost three years when I was in my late teens/early 20s and I loved her more then I thought any man loved a woman in all of history. But we were young and we both ended up changing.


My suggestion is buy your girl something nice... A diamond necklace or something. But hold off on marriage until you're atleast in your mid to later 20s :twocents:

[Unknown American]

Okay I am going to be real nice and forgo the usual "What are you thinking!" bit that I would usually give someone.

I am also going to leave out the part about the bank account in the cayman islands and how to hide your assets.

Now say we were smoking a bowl somewhere and talking about this and you asked me this same question. Well after the the bit about being a sucker and hiding assets and prenuptial agreements- So now I am convinced you are serious about being in love and wanting to marry her.

Here is a few things you can try. If she is a sports fan you can always do the Scoreboard "Will you marry me" thing. That is a classic.

Or you could arrange for the bank that you use to put it on there big billboard on a certain date.

On Halloween you could give her her favorite candies in a little trick or treat bag and put the ring in there or wrap it up in a candy wrapper and give it to her. Tell her she has earned a treat!

There are a million ways to do it based on who you are and who she is.

Good luck. Wish you the best!

[birdgirl73]

My husband asked me on Christmas Eve morning in bed when we woke up. I was over at his apartment, and he brought me some coffee and a croissant, and on the little tray there was a ring box. So now we celebrate the proposal at that time of year and he often gives me additional wedding rings (I don't like a single look) at Christmastime to "renew" the decision. I knew something was up. We'd gone out to a romantic dinner the night before and he'd been acting funny and nervous for two days. I think he was planning to ask at dinner the night before but lost his nerve.

Christmas is a good time to ask. For one thing, if there's a ring involved, everyone can look at it at Christmas parties. Jewelry always makes a good Christmas present and engagement makes for good holiday memories. And if you ask around holiday time, it gives you plenty of time to plan a spring or summer wedding.

[olderandwiser?]

Speaking as a hopeless romantic.......ROMANTIC! ALL women love romantic no matter what they say. That is, if they have feelings period.

[Kenn]

Lol but I mean to be fair, I'm pretty sure Kenn is not one of these young ruffians we speak of...at least I don't think so anyways.

Still though, you ultimately know what you want, so go get it then eh?

Ur rite its a plant..I aint no young punk im actually 38 and we already have 4 kids ..Weve been together for 13 years ..and because of kids never had the chance to marry ..It just seems it would complete our family if we were married.I cant see it changing our relationship at all we are pretty solid.I just want to do it special not just a another proposal.

[Unknown American]

Okay then set up an account on blogger.com or any free blog web site and make a-

Will you marry me web page. Tell her how much you love her and pop the question on it.

Then set it up as your homepage for your computer.

When she gets on to the web to serf, that is the first page she will see.

[happiestmferoutthere]

Kenn, don't listen to all the marriage haters. I married my husband on our 20th anniversary together(Our daughter was 18), and it was a great decision. It wont change your relationship after so long. It truly is just a piece of paper! It meant a lot to my husband, not so important to me but I'm glad I did it.:thumbsup:

[Kenn]

Kenn, don't listen to all the marriage haters. I married my husband on our 20th anniversary together(Our daughter was 18), and it was a great decision. It wont change your relationship after so long. It truly is just a piece of paper! It meant a lot to my husband, not so important to me but I'm glad I did it.:thumbsup:

Thanks happi ..nice story so u married after u had children too ..thats cool ..Im not listenin to the haters .its good to see other peoples point of view but my minds made up I love my babe to death and wether we are married or not that wont change . I just want to give her that special day she dreams of.

[Kenn]

Okay then set up an account on blogger.com or any free blog web site and make a-

Will you marry me web page. Tell her how much you love her and pop the question on it.

Then set it up as your homepage for your computer.

When she gets on to the web to serf, that is the first page she will see.

now that is an original idea mate ..food for thought ..thanx for ur thoughts.:thumbsup: