Sometimes when things are said they can never be taken back. The pen truly IS mightier than the sword.

Yes.....you may have lost your friend. But I have an honest feeling that she is less of a "friend" than she is you think she is.

I would give things time. Write a sincere letter of apology and let that be your last statement if necessary. Get some space between you and the situation.

And learn to forgive yourself like FBR says. You're as human as the rest of us.