How to tell a girl

[JD1stTimer]

Just make a move after you have been hanging out a few times? Somehow I have always thought that if she doesn't like you that way she will really be upset or something... just shows what baggage my socialization gave me...

[Chaotixxx]

Show her with actions, not words.

[Gundari]

I've always found direct words work best for me. Don't be nervous, being nervous makes you look weak. Just say summit like "Hey, you're pretty chill we should hang out sometime" and see where it goes from there.

[randomname4888]

offer to smoke her out?

[burnable]

Coming up with the right things to say is completely misguided. No matter how clever your words are, she probably won't be interested unless you constantly keep the focal point on her. Ask questions about her, make comments on what she just said, and laugh at what she says if it's even a little bit funny. The trick is not to look like you're working on a project; she needs to feel that you are relaxed and enjoying her company so much, that you don't even think to bring up anything about yourself.

Some people will say it's best to show your intentions as early as possible, others will say it's better to be a mystery and to act aloof. Either way is good; it really depends on the girl. If she is direct and blunt by nature, show your intentions early. If she is a nuanced intellectual, it's better to keep mystery going about yourself. That type of girl is interested in a complex partner, one with whom she can share ideas.

There is not just one foolproof method of approaching girls. You just have to throw yourself into a casual conversation with her, find out what kind of girl she is, and respond accordingly.

[crudemood]

actions speak louder than words, so ask her out on a casual outing, maybe try to land a kiss and maybe then you'll know then instead of telling her how you feel.

[PaperTigers]

not the most mature way, but alcohol makes things much easier haha

[Staurm]

I was wondering what is the best way to tell a girl that you like her and how to approach her and say it

These days with half a coconut shell stuffed down your pants.

No seriously, just talk to her. I'm not the best person to ask though, I have entirely the same problem.

[funfubarman]

Dude i feel you. I hate asking girls out, much rather prefer it if they came to me with a blunt, but the advice given here is very good.