Quote Originally Posted by make it legal
**WARNING THIS MIGHT BE A BIT GRAPHIC**

This nay be a long read but I really need some help.


So I've been going out with this girl for about 2 and a half weeks. We had sex for the first time on Saturday night, and before then, I was a virgin. Whenever we're getting close with each other I always get a hard on. The first time I got a hand job from her, I didn't reach orgasm, I got close a few times, but didn't hit it. The second time, I had to try to help myself orgasm by fondling her breasts a lot, and it worked. Before we had sex for the first time the other night, I was getting pretty worked up (pun intended). When I put it in, my erection would only last for maybe 20-30 seconds. I would be completely gone, but it wasn't as hard. I just didn't understand, she has one of the most perfect bodies i have ever seen. Eventually, I lasted long enough to orgasm.
Today, though, I wasn't able to. We had a little time today, though. I just don't understand what's going on. I mean, I get really turned on during all the preemptive stuff all the time. She said it was probably thinking too much about it. I think that might be it. Maybe I thought I wasn't living up to her expectations, because I know she has had experience. She also doesn't move at all and expects me to do all the work. I just want to see what you guys think...

Thank's for any help.
During the Act, and after foreplay try to take your mind elsewhere like the Bahamas! And when you(mentally)return she'll love you like Wrigleys gum! And as for the guys doing all the work, sometimes it's the woman's way of seeing(feeling)what ya got. You'll be okay with practice. Just remember, mind over meat!