You are indeed thinking too hard about it. This is a classic case of performance anxiety and nothing more. If you can get hard and achieve orgasm by hand and by yourself but are having trouble in a partner situation, that's performance anxiety. I mean, when you think about it, it is a situation that's fraught with tension.

You're a healthy, able-bodied young man. Try and chill out and give yourself a lot more foreplay time in advance to achieve a nice, solid erection. Sounds like you're also rushing things. That's easy to do when you're new at that. Good luck!
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . what the hell is wrong with me **WARNING THIS MIGHT BE A BIT GRAPHIC** This nay be a long read but I really need some help. So I've been going out with this girl for about 2 and a half weeks. We had sex for the first time on Saturday night, and before then, I was a virgin. Whenever we're getting close with each other I always get a hard on. The first time I got a hand job from her, I didn't reach orgasm, I got close a few times, but didn't hit it. The second time, I had to try to help myself orgasm by fondling her Rating: 5