Hey don't give up brother man

nothing embarassing there, you are currently in a learning phase
don't you do martial arts? think of it this way... when you started learning the arts, I'm sure there were embarassing moments, but you evolved and now, I don't doubt that your confidence level is much higher. Yet, I'm sure there are still embarassing moments, and I'm sure you get over them quickly too.

Sex is just the same. It's an art, and it starts sloppy, but it evolves! Read up on it on the web, look up kama sutra and tantra, as both these arts are powerful, efficient, and deep in the subject. Little things that you can learn and apply, that will make you improve fast and gain that confidence you possess when you do the martials :jointsmile: