Oh and make it legal I was the same way my first time..ya just have to relax, and go with the flow, just think its the most naturual thing in the woirld and there is nothin to worry about. To be honest i still get performance anxiety I've only had 3 sexual partners in my life, and the first doesn't really count cause everytime we tried, my little gnome would not stay stiff in the garden! I use to get sexual anxeity with my x-wife too, that may sound real messed, but when she'd ask me questions like "so are we going to have sex later tonight?" it kind of messed with my sexual anxiety big time, she never understood that..but yeah listen to birdgirl she's allways got the best advice.