what the hell is wrong with me

[make it legal]

aww poor guy you'll be okay sounds like shes not gettin it either,

young love there is nuthin like it~~~~

my sex course practices....


takes longer 4 Rebecca to "get there" than it does for Peter

IF Rebecca can GENTLY sit on you' with peter all the way in __ something about the clit and that bone in a guys pubis makes me and my guy lock up << everytime

ok

be gentle, girls are fragile, so are guys, you have nothing but time on your side, soft sexy music, darkness, dankness, some vino, and lead free candles
and


cover peter you do not want babies yet ,or STD's

domes suck, but the peace of mind will be worth it

it takes a village to raise a child

practice makes perfect :thumbsup:

No, I can tell she is enjoying it, besides the fact that she told me I'm pretty good for a beginner. She has had quite a bit more experience than me. That might be one of the reasons I think so much, because I guess I feel like I have something to live up to but I'm more comfortable every time so I think it will be better.

[dragonrider]

Performance anxiety was common for me with a new partner. Once I got settled in with a new woman, everything worked just fine, but the first time or two with each was not always what I hoped for. It takes awhile to get really comfortable. Also, with my very first partner, I was actually getting so excited that I was coming early and not even really recongnizing it. The sensation of coming inside a girl is not the same as when you wack it, or she wacks it for you. It is sometimes not as intense a physical sensation, but more satisfying in other ways. So for me I was finshing earlier than I though, not feeling like I thought it would feel, thinking I hadn't finished, and then wondering why my boner was fading. Once I got better control, I made it last longer and had much stronger and satisfying orgasms. I'm not saying this is what is happening to you, but something to consider.

When you mentioned that fondling her breasts helped you during the hand job, I think that is key. What makes sex really work is enjoying the ride and not focusing on the destination too much. Enjoy the ride enough and you will get there. What is strange is that pausing and enjoying the scenery works for both going soft too early, and also for finishing too quickly, if that is ever a problem. You don't want to get in and then just bang away until you finish anyway. Foreplay type stroking should not end as soon as you get in. Even after you get inside, keep touching her breasts --- stroke, squeeze, lick and suck. Kiss her face and neck. Run your hands over her body and feel how good she feels. Smell her hair. Look at how good she looks. Squeeze her ass. While you are inside, lick your finger and then stroke her clit with your moistened fingers to get her squirming. Get a girl really squirming while you are inside, and you will not go soft!

Try a different position. If she doesn't move much, then you are probably going in straight missionary style, which is actually one of the harder positions for a man because of the strain of holding yourself up on your arms. That strain can affect your control. Maybe she's not comfortable starting off in other positions, but if you start off missionary style, you can get to some different positions without even pulling out. Put your hand behind her knee and bring her leg up some, or put the crook of your arm behind her knee to bring her leg up. Just doing that can sort of spread her a little wider and change the sensation for both of you. You can do it with both of her legs too if you want, but don't strain her too much, and don't do it if she doesn't like it. Bring your own knees forward so that you are sort of sitting up on your knees and shins, her legs over your thighs, you still inside, with her laying in front of you --- sometimes you have to hold onto her hips to keep from pulling out with this one, but once you are there, that is a good position for stroking her clit and inner thighs, because you have space between your bodies. Also your weight is not on your arms, so your hands are free for stroking her breasts and the rest of her body. From there, you can go a few different ways. You can pull her up to you so that she is in your lap facing you, straddling your legs, her chest up against yours, but if you can't sit on your knees like that you do need to do some tricky leg movements to get your legs out in front of you, and its hard to get good thrusting once you are there --- still it's nice holding her in your lap like that, and it's also possible for you to lay back from there and have her on top of you then, but then she generally needs to do the tricky leg move too, which is not always easy. Or, from that kneeling position with her laying in front of you, instead of lifting her into your lap, you can lift and straighten her legs so that the backs of her legs are resting on your chest --- you are on your knees/shins, sitting up straight, she's on her back, with her legs up in the air on your chest. If you kind of squeeze her legs together when she is like that and thrust, you can often stimulate her G spot and get her going pretty good. From there you can lower her legs to one side or the other so that she is laying on her side with you still on your knees/shins behind her. It's sort of a sideways transition position where you could lay down beside her going in from behind with you both on your sides, or roll her all the way over for a rear entry position with you on top or with her on her knees doggy style, or roll her back for more missionary, or just keep going sideways.

Anyway, not to get off on a whole tutorial on how to twist your girl up like a pretzel, but the point is that changing things around a bit can alter the sensation, and can give you more angles to look at her and to touch her, and it can be really exciting for both of you.

Good luck, and keep going! This thing will definitely work itself out with more practice.

[kikoraa]

well damn....
its like 17 positions without even pulling out

[brian965]

it might be a condom cuttin off your circulation, that happens to me a little bit like 15 min if i leave the condom on