Quote Originally Posted by sublbc
Well I just wanted to share a little bit of my life with you all and to get some input.

I recently lost a girl that I thought that I loved because I was forced to choose between her and my profession. She does smoke but is not down with the fact that I am a grower and do it full time for a living.

We tried to make things work but it becme clear that what I do is not acceptable to her and she basically forced me to chose between her and my job.

Since there was little choice for me I had to choose my job. For now I really have no choice and even though I do not plan for doing this forever, I do plan on doing it for at least a year or until I get my shit together.

So I guess for now I need to find a girl that is down for a guy who is a pro grower. I am starting to see that what I do really isolates me from a lot of people and it has become tough for me.

Well enough whining....

I would just think that there would be more acceptance especially living in the east bay but...

Another question I have is if it is possible to meet girls from this forum?
I hear ya! I'm basically in the same situation. A girl who wants to basically be on the losing side of things(minimum wage)and I'm just not feeling her. She knows that I've been studying(cannibus 101)for a grow and she's not supportive even though we've been together 5 years! All I can think of is that when she met me I had all the trappings of a crack dealer(home,cars,clothes,etc). But I wanted to make a positive change in my life so I ditched the poison(2002)and got into being a real estate investor considering she was a mortgage broker. Due to a bad market and poor business decisions(mostly on her part)we tanked horribly! Now I see a silver(green) lining and I feel totally solo! And besides, I'm tired of being a cannibus client. I have an expensive habit! But I've made my decision mentally! My first break I'm headed for the border of Liberation!