Boy I tell you that is a big problem right there.

I have no doubt you can meet a nice babe. But you best seriously get to know her before you even think about telling her about your grow.

I do hope you realize that growing and relationships significantly raises serious issues. Like your freedom.

Any relationship can go to hell. People can be vengeful.

I hate to say it but it is safer to not involve anyone in a grow.

I would keep it a secret from anyone until you make dam sure you know them. I speak from experience here.

I do feel your pain. In a similar way I am in the same boat you are in. It definitely sucks. I have come to the conclusion that a relationship is just not in the cards for me.

It would be nice to meet someone on the forums here but... How do you know the person you are talking to is not DEA. Paranoid? Perhaps, hey I am a stoner who got burned bad by a girl I loved and trusted. I am entitled to be paranoid.

If you do not think you can be busted by something that goes on on the Internet you are wrong. With a phone call and filling out paper work anyone can make nice money by becoming an informer. Including someone you meet here.

Also people change, I am a lifetime smoker. Most people are not, they smoke for a while and then change. When they change they might not be willing to take the risk of growing anymore.

Wish you luck in finding your babe. I have not found mine yet, but I suppose I have the rest of my life to find her.