Quote Originally Posted by qdavid
I can't give any advice that won't seem lame, but I'll try anyway. Age is just a number and worrying about some kind of clock ticking is just a waste of time or thinking about a dwindling population is just not true. There are actually more people at that age that know what they want in life than most twenty somethings and you so have more to offer than any divorced bimbo. You are a very cool chick. The best relationships happen when you're not looking for one. So just stop. And I'll bet within three months you're gaga in love. And dude, I know it hurts now, but you might have dodged a bullet. If she makes an ultimatum like that, if she had won, there would have been more coming. You guys are young and have your health. I know that sounds dumb and like an old cliche', but it's really true. Where were you guys 10 years ago? Totally different. I imagine. Growing cannibas is so much fun and like I was telling a friend, just sitting and looking at my plants is just soothing to my soul sometimes. I don't think I'll ever stop.
While I agree with most of what you wrote, the whole "divorced bimbo" thing threw me. What does one have to do with the other? I've been divorced 3 times, and I am definitely not a bimbo. Leaving those idjits was the smartest thing I ever did.

Hey Stormcrow, why are you always trying to get everybody to move to Cali LOL?! You've got me convinced now. As soon as my oldest son graduates, (6 years) Papi and I are heading west. We're tired of the conservative midwest.

I never realized how daunting the dating scene could be for a grower. I'm so used to my friends and family being pro-cannabis that it never occurred to me.