I can't give any advice that won't seem lame, but I'll try anyway. Age is just a number and worrying about some kind of clock ticking is just a waste of time or thinking about a dwindling population is just not true. There are actually more people at that age that know what they want in life than most twenty somethings and you so have more to offer than any divorced bimbo. You are a very cool chick. The best relationships happen when you're not looking for one. So just stop. And I'll bet within three months you're gaga in love. And dude, I know it hurts now, but you might have dodged a bullet. If she makes an ultimatum like that, if she had won, there would have been more coming. You guys are young and have your health. I know that sounds dumb and like an old cliche', but it's really true. Where were you guys 10 years ago? Totally different. I imagine. Growing cannibas is so much fun and like I was telling a friend, just sitting and looking at my plants is just soothing to my soul sometimes. I don't think I'll ever stop.