Well your last question is the easiest- YES. It's not the purpose of the forum by a long stretch but I met a wonderful man here myself recently who circumstances no longer allow me to date, but we were quite happy for a time.

The rest, not so much.

First of all, THANK YOU for making this thread. It's something that I, approaching my 30th birthday with no boyfriend, just a 'fishing buddy with benefits', and no prospects, I've been really depressed lately. Like, REALLY depressed. I can't even bring a date back to my house until I practically run a background check on him.

I was thinking- in fact I was talking about this with whatsthatsmell- okay, imagine all the potential partners are there.

At my age the pool is ALREADY not so huge.
Then take all the losers, weirdos, head cases, and obvious jerks and forget about them.
Then ask, who smokes herb?
Who thinks it should be legal?
Who would like to live where it is grown?
And finally, who would like to join me in the risk I take to grow cannabis?

There's a couple people left I guess.... ?

You know what I mean? It's very isolating, very lonely. I don't know what to do.

So I just stay here in my house full of plants. Maybe if I'm lucky my fishing buddy will let me cook him dinner one or two nights a week. Maybe if I'm REALLY lucky I'll be out in the woods with a sack of compost over my shoulder one beautiful spring day and my knight in dirt bike armor will come along on his ATV with 40 gallons of diluted PureBlend Pro...

But I'm not holding my breath.