what kind of bad things have happened to you

[friendowl]

and how did you deal with it.

i have found myself knocked down by one of lifes hurdles
its not going to be easy to bounce back from this shit

it is selfish of me to feel bad about my problems
when others got it worse.i just want to hear some stories
of hard times and how you dealt with em

i was reading this sory about some guy who was 19 and had
gotten drunk one night and beat up some kid who was taunting him
the kid was 12 and died as a result of his injuries.the 19 year old
was sent to prison.on his 3rd day there he was in the showers
and was gang raped by 4-5 inmates.as he was laying on the
floor and hurt some other con walked up.the 19 year old was thinking this guy was going to help him.the con made the kid
give him a bj and then shanked him a few times.the kid survived
and he was the one writing the story to keep others from
making bad choices...in a weird way it made me feel better
about my drama...atleast i aint that guy

friendowl Reviewed by friendowl on 10-22-2007. what kind of bad things have happened to you and how did you deal with it. i have found myself knocked down by one of lifes hurdles its not going to be easy to bounce back from this shit it is selfish of me to feel bad about my problems when others got it worse.i just want to hear some stories of hard times and how you dealt with em i was reading this sory about some guy who was 19 and had Rating: 5

[Gandalf_The_Grey]

it is selfish of me to feel bad about my problems
when others got it worse.

I've never adhered to this belief. Suffering is universal, stress is a neuro-chemical matter, and prolonged stress can overwhelm and exhaust you no matter who you are. There's always somebody who has it worse, that doesn't discredit your own suffering. I hear some assholes saying "oh boohoo, there's kids starving in Africa blah blah blah....". Well, there's people starving in North Korea and their government is even more oppressive...plus they're cold! Does that mean the African's suffering is invalidated now?

[slipknotpsycho]

compared to that story, i haven't had too many things bad happen to me.... i'm really accident prone tho... i'm always hurting myself one way or another.... and once inawhile, it's something very bad

[ificouldiwould]

wtf
never again will i ever complin about my life

[GrinS]

To contribute to hard times, my bro is going through one right now. He has OCD and is very suicidal. hes tried killing himself 2 times and one of those times, I had to fight him off of a knife for 25 minutes before the cops came. This was months ago and I've moved out since then, but he has burned a lot of bridges and is in a huge slump. Thats what kind of bad thing has happened to my bro and myself.

[make it legal]

My real mom died when I was only a year and a half old from cancer. I had to have nannies until I was 6. The last one I had was physically and sexually abusive. My dad remarried when I was 6. She already had two kids, who are both older than me. I was a lot more out of control in those days. I had frequent temper tantrums, I didn't develop good social skills (which still plagues me to this day) and I was almost suicidal at that young of an age. I think the fact that my mom (I don't call her my stepmom) treated me as if I were her own child, and she still does. She gave me equal love to what she gave her real kids. She was also strict with me and made me know that certain things wouldn't be tolerated. In fact, my parents are just splitting up now, and I'm going to live with her and not my biological dad (the reason why would take way too long).

Anyway, I think I owe it to my mom, my brother, and my sister. They really turned my life around and I think I would be a horrible person.

Wow I never knew how good it felt to vent on this site. :rastasmoke:

[silkyblue]

Hit by a vehicle when I was a child, abused as a child, lied to in adult years, and knocked out by a guy, he thought I was screwing around I wasnt,

thats about it !

:stoned:

[thcbongman]

My main one is my battle with cancer which hopefully is over. Can't say it for another 3 years.

Some of the things I had to go through is blocked from my memory. I don't want to remember it. I learned what real pain was, and all the things I use to worry about suddenly weren't important.

It taught me to love life, persevere, not rush things, and take it one step at a time. Most of all, to kick some ass, and fight.

[WEsmokeED]

some guy who was 19 and had
gotten drunk one night and beat up some kid who was taunting him
the kid was 12 and died as a result of his injuries.the 19 year old
was sent to prison.on his 3rd day there he was in the showers
and was gang raped by 4-5 inmates.as he was laying on the
floor and hurt some other con walked up.the 19 year old was thinking this guy was going to help him.the con made the kid
give him a bj and then shanked him a few times

maybe im just really high, and immature but am i the only one who finds this somewhat funny becuase of its apparent degree of exageration?

Or maybe that is what prison is like :wtf: that would suck