oh and as far as doing kinky things that surprise me ... i dont usually how my freaky side until im pretty comforatable with a guy. but one night the first time i was with the guy i told him to do eveyrthing i like i told him to talk dirty to me to slap me all that stuff. but hey i loved it and we've had great se ever since.

edit: oh and this reminds me of the dumpster things. one night idk why i was so horny but iwas at this party at this kids hosue and it was a pretty dirty house and i took my bf at the time down to his nasty ass basement to fuck him in there. i normally would like it in a clean place not on a old ragged sofa with cheeze it crums overing it. i still has some crums on my ass when i got home haha