How long has your family lived in the same place? How often does your family eat and drink the same foods? What changes has your family done on a daily base, weekly, monthly, and yearly. What are habits? Habits are things a person does without having to think about how to do it. Your brother lives one day to the next, the same as you and your parents, which means your brother and the rest of you have too much free time to THINK, wonder, ponder and assume and many other things, brought about by doing things based on habits. Rearrange the house, cook something different, go buy a toy to play with, just start doing things throughout the day, "THAT CANNOT BE DONE WITHOUT HAVING TO THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING.