how to deal with the fact that you have never had a girlfriend...

[Innominate]

Of course. It can still be difficult to find someone if he's always at home, because the obvious is that there aren't any girls at his home, but also because if he's at home he probably doesn't know where to go. This dude, in my opinion, needs some friends before he gets a girlfriend. He's gotta find a scene he likes -- therein lies people similar to himself and, probably, people he'd be able to get along with and people he'd have stuff in common with.

I'm glad to see we're on the same page.