Quote Originally Posted by Non
the problem is I can't even get a date or fuck budddy

what the fuck is dating anyway. I dont know how to go about that one with women. "Hey you wanna go on a date?" it sounds better if I just ask them if they wanna hang out.
Don't worry so much about the definition of "dating", your only purpose of going on a date is to have sex so who cares if your time with a girl is considered a date to others, that doesn't matter. Do what is most comfortable, I don't think I have ever asked a girl straight up "Hey, will you date me?" Just do what is comfortable, like getting her number, or as you mention, just ask if they want to hang out. Just plan something interesting, no matter how slutty the girl is, they all pretend to be innocent virgins so don't just plan to have her come over, get naked and go at it. If you can get her to your place with no distractions, (parents, roomates, etc.), that would be good, watch a rented movie or something, whatever will make the both of you comfortable.

Alcohol is always your friend, bud can be too but most girls aren't really into pot, and many will be turned off if you even offer it so I wouldn't even chance it unless you already know she is down to smoke. Don't listen to these other guys say you need to know her before having sex, if your only looking to get laid her personality doesn't matter for you, and it's not like goody Christian girls are immune from STDs either, so always use a jimmy with anyone you are with! Personally, I'm more paranoid of knocking a girl up than catching an STD, but in either case neither is a good thing to have happen.