how to deal with the fact that you have never had a girlfriend...

[cadmiumblimp]

Its all about confidence, think to yourself they are lesser than you and your doing them a favor.

I don't understand this at all. Are you saying that dudes should see the girls as lesser than themselves? That's...degrading, in my opinion. Of course, that could be why I'm still a virgin and all, but probably not.

I completely understand, but it doesn't mean it is hopeless for him. As I've said before, there are different kinds of women out there looking for Non.

Of course. It can still be difficult to find someone if he's always at home, because the obvious is that there aren't any girls at his home, but also because if he's at home he probably doesn't know where to go. This dude, in my opinion, needs some friends before he gets a girlfriend. He's gotta find a scene he likes -- therein lies people similar to himself and, probably, people he'd be able to get along with and people he'd have stuff in common with.

[Coelho]

I don't understand this at all. Are you saying that dudes should see the girls as lesser than themselves? That's...degrading, in my opinion. Of course, that could be why I'm still a virgin and all, but probably not.

Well... they say so because many men tends to regard any woman theyre interested in as goddesses, queens, so high and distant from them that they think it would be impossible that the woman give him even a look. So, they become very afraid of even approaching her, fearing theyre not good enough for her.
I dont think women likes men who are afraid of her. In fact, it seems women likes corageous, standing, cocky men... and this kind of men, due their own cockyness, would think theyre doing a favour to the ladies when being interested in them. And, strangely, it works with most women...
From my own experiences, it seems as most interested you show you are, less interested the woman becomes. And as less interested you show you are, most interested the woman becomes. Its weird, i know... but who said that women are understandable?

[Innominate]

Of course. It can still be difficult to find someone if he's always at home, because the obvious is that there aren't any girls at his home, but also because if he's at home he probably doesn't know where to go. This dude, in my opinion, needs some friends before he gets a girlfriend. He's gotta find a scene he likes -- therein lies people similar to himself and, probably, people he'd be able to get along with and people he'd have stuff in common with.

I'm glad to see we're on the same page.

[katacus]

Women are highly over rated. Get a rubber fuck me in the face doll and dog for companionship.lol

works for me, and Im happy as hell. Got money in the bank and some peace and quiet.

listen, wanna work on your confidence? go to a strip club and practice. talk to the chicks, wave a few dollars around and enjoy yourself. you can screw up bad there, make loads of goofy mistakes. but the chicks arent goning to care, cause its all green to them. then when your ready, hunt ya down a real chick.

then fall in love, get married, have kids.....then you will see loads of chicks given you the eye. then you will have to have some of that because it's written into your dna as a guy. next thing you know, your divorsed. then you go back to the strip clubs and start the whole process again.

another thought: ever notice it's easier to get a girl when you have a girlfreind. seems like the very second your single, all the girls get together and vote you out. I have never been able to figure that one out.

other things about chicks: ever notice those complicated woman magazines at the check out lines. next time your stuck in line, read the covers. "100 ways to make love your man" or "men's 100erotic zones" I only know one erotic zone. I dont have a clue where the others are. trust me, I looked everywhere. thing is, chicks are crazie. I dated one chick who swore spies where chasing her. serious. another told me she was some kind of healing witch. not a bad witch, a good one she says. one chick thougth she was psychic. another would call a psychic hot line. had a few who swore someone is trying to distroy her. been the ringleader of many a circus. chicks love drama. thats why they love those damn reality shows on tv.

oh yeah..chicks love chocolate. everyone of them. you should always have chocolate around for the emergency break down times.

but yes...the best hunters will tell you, it's all in the confidence. I once told a chick at a club that I was an astronaunt and flew to marrs. funny thing about confidence. you can say the crazie things to a chick. but you do it with a degree of confidence, chicks will damn near believe anything. it just takes practice

it will all work out...its all good:rastasmoke:

[Cyclonite]

I don't understand this at all. Are you saying that dudes should see the girls as lesser than themselves? That's...degrading, in my opinion. Of course, that could be why I'm still a virgin and all, but probably not.

Of course. It can still be difficult to find someone if he's always at home, because the obvious is that there aren't any girls at his home, but also because if he's at home he probably doesn't know where to go. This dude, in my opinion, needs some friends before he gets a girlfriend. He's gotta find a scene he likes -- therein lies people similar to himself and, probably, people he'd be able to get along with and people he'd have stuff in common with.

Im not saying women are...thats far from the truth. It will help your mindset, your probably putting the girl above and the way you act will portray that to them...then they will get the idea they are better than you. Its just a different way to perceive things...like auto loans, most people are like "great im approved, thank god" but im more like why the hell would I give you my business when there is better offers.

[Cyclonite]

Ever notice most girls get with the guys you will deem an asshole? That gos back to what im saying, its just that initial attitude you have to take to get the date...after you get it then ease into how you really are show her how she should be treated.....I dont understand it but it works time and time again.

[Non]

well I had my first kiss today.

[Innominate]

And so life continues. Nice! :thumbsup: