how to deal with the fact that you have never had a girlfriend...

[affasd]

longest relationship ive had was 8 months,imo g/f's are overrated trying to make you change and buy them shit i would rather go out every night.

agreed man 100%.way overrated.


I have a lot more money and time to do what i want and im happy this way im not gonna change for someone but if someone likes me for who i am then great but so far that hasnt happened im only 18 tho but i could see me in your same situation at 21 but if you learn to not care and just make yourself happy then its all good and hopefully eventually you'll meet someone for you

[kikoraa]

yea man biggest mistake is worring so much about it, when the time finally comes for you to make your move youll panic cus youve been so stressed out about this day for so long. take it easy listen to everyone and make yourself happy first. be comfortable and confident when approaching a girl.

PS at least you got your hands for now dude

[Non]

I do not think it will ever happen.

[kikoraa]

If you keep talking like that you're right. Man up
You got any personal friends that can help you or give you advice or take you out and and show you.
Theres someone for everyone Just be strong man youll get the poon or relationship you deserve. Don't diss yourself Gotta be more confident. Everones giving you great advice listen to them.

[TheGreenBuddy]

I'm 18 and never been in a serious relationship (lasted longer than a week or two), and haven't been in a relationship since I left high school.
If you guys want a girl so bad, get one, it's not really that difficult, put some effort in!
It just depends who you will settle for, for me personally I haven't come across any lady's who I would would even consider to spend the rest of my days with.

Besides that I enjoy being single alittle, I means I can talk to lady's anyway I like and not feel like I shouldn't be having a laugh with other girls because I'm attached to someone. No responsibility apart from myself.

Same situation man.

[kms brown]

None of this info is helpful for anybody trying to get laid, as I said before, women don't even know what they really want so asking them for tips won't get you anywhere as far as sex goes.

Non, you just need to get laid, you can worry about all that balance crap later on, but first thing's first, just get laid. I guess you could hire a professional if that is your last option, but that won't really teach you anything about how to talk to girls, so I wouldn't recommend that unless you are getting frustrated to the point where all you can think of is sex, (which doesn't sound like that is you, at least from what I'm getting).

I don't know any girl that would prefer a virgin over a guy that knows what he's doing, not just for sex, but relationships as well. They all want a guy that knows what he is doing, but you will never figure out what to do if you don't have the basics of a relationship down, that is, sex. Yes, sex is the basic core of all relationships. The main reason relationships fail is because they don't have a good sex life, having a good sex life with your mate is the most important part of that relationship. If you never learn the basics, you can never advance into a serious relationship, so don't listen to anybody that tells you sex isn't important because it is, and it always has been in human history. So many people today ignore the importance of sex in a relationship, is it any wonder why so many relationships fail? Divorce is becoming the trendy thing to do these days, few marriages last longer than 5 years, and people continue to ignore the importance of having a good sex life in their relationships.

Although, it seems you are choosing what you want to hear, you are ignoring excellent recommendations given in this thread because you continue to believe in some "balance" crap. With as little experience as you claim to have, I'm not sure how you can even think you know enough about women to have balance. That would be like me claiming to know how to balance my check book when I don't even know enough about my own bank account to log in and see how much money is left. Ok, maybe a bad analogy, but I do think you should be focused on sex and only sex, and let the relationship part come together when the time is right with the right person. The more women you date, the more you will learn what you do and don't like in a partner, both physically and emotionally, again, don't ignore the physical side!

While i do agree that sex is a key factor i also believe that what you just said is moronic. Your not having sex 24/7 and if your not having sex what are you doing? communicating with eachother, and if you cant communicate and all you can wait for is sex, your relationship will fail. You dont see many 60-80 yr old married couples still together for the sex, i mean im sure there is one or two out there, but sex stops eventually and when you have a relationship around sex, guess what the relation ship stops too.
I didnt realise he was looking for sex, i thought he was looking for a relationship when i read "I would guess that women are different in these days, most don't want to marry or stay exclusive for an amount of time." If you really want to get laid get rid of your ego.

[Innominate]

Sign up for a gym and start lifting weights. Gain some muscle, confidence, energy, and get out there. Just don't be too damn confident.

[iStaaHi]

i love my girl and im 18 it sucks tho cuz we dont chill that much cuz she works and between school and that and asap its hard to chill,, so i dont know i cant help u,, relationships fuck with ur head

[Innominate]

We weren't born to be in relationships. We were born to procreate and fulfill our desires. It's a matter of conforming that makes relationships so difficult.

[Nailhead]

While i do agree that sex is a key factor i also believe that what you just said is moronic. Your not having sex 24/7 and if your not having sex what are you doing? communicating with eachother, and if you cant communicate and all you can wait for is sex, your relationship will fail. You dont see many 60-80 yr old married couples still together for the sex, i mean im sure there is one or two out there, but sex stops eventually and when you have a relationship around sex, guess what the relation ship stops too.
I didnt realise he was looking for sex, i thought he was looking for a relationship when i read "I would guess that women are different in these days, most don't want to marry or stay exclusive for an amount of time." If you really want to get laid get rid of your ego.

It would be moronic if I was giving him relationship advice, getting laid and getting a g/f are 2 completely different things. If he is like any normal guy, he probably thinks that in order to get laid he needs to have a relationship, which just isn't true at all.

Maybe it is just me, but you seem a bit angered by the advice I gave, why is that?