Kindness and consideration are always important. Intelligence goes without saying. I like a man who is well read and thoughtful, but not so serious that he can't laugh at himself. Sensitivity is a plus, but it can be overdone. He still has to be strong and masculine. If I meet a guy who is more in touch with his feminine side than I am, I'm not going to be interested. I tend to be drawn to men who share my interests on some level, especially if they can stand my cheesy "B" horror movie marathons, and don't mind that I dedicate half my year to getting ready for Halloween.