I'm 23 and been married for 3 years together for 8 and everyday I wake up my life feels fuller and more complete just waking up seeing my wifes face and then getting up and seeing our beautiful son I know it can be tough and we have been through a lot already having my at 17 and there are many more tough times ahead but it comes down to the people and a relationship just like a person doesn't stay the same they are and have to constantly evolve and adapt and if you don't then things start to not work. But marriage isn't for everyone and definately not for the stubborn who are stuck in there ways and see change for love as being miserable or her changing me. My wife hasn't changed me but she has inspired many changes in me. But there are many things I have kept and she has changed and that adaptability is whats makes our relationship so strong, as it is always evolving, growing, and getting stronger as it is tested by all of life's hardships and built up by all of our triumphs together.