it also leads me to believe you have some serious commitment issues.... and unless you find a girl that feels the exact same, she will notice too.... which can cause a relationship just as 'destructive' as you make marriage out to be.... just something to consider...

if marriage ain't your thing, that's fine.. but you don't have to go and state it's pointless and everything else you said... i'm married and i know it works,so it doesn't bother me... i'm more worried about those who might be swayed from such statements