Just friends? or something more you tell me

[Omnirok]

This is a thread about me just sharing a story about being just friends...

So I met this girl about 1.5/2months ago...

First night we hung out I was invited by a few friends of mine and she happened to be invited to and thats when we first met it was at a putt putt from like 5PM to 2AM and we had a fucking great time but nothing special then she had to go home and we split our different ways.

Next night we go to the bowling alley with those same friends they decide to leave we decide to stay and hang out and bowl... well anyways she looks at me and is like "you smoke?" I simply reply "Smoke what?" she says "well im allergic to tobacco what do you think?" And I just simply nodded and she showed me a sack so we go and toke it up in my SUV:rasta: we drive around a bit and we smoke 4 or 5 er 7 er 9 blunts in my car just cheffing it up flirting and things of that sort.... Her cousin calls her and asks if she will go to denton to help her move shit and she asks me if ill go... Of course I say yes we go out to denton and move her cousins shit and cheef like 22 blunts out there and yea ended up falling asleep on a couch with her that night.

That was Saturday and I ended up waking up at 2PM the next day (Sunday) and went home got dressed showered all that goodness and we texted for like 4hours or so...

So monday rolls around and shes in my Vet Science class(Senior blow off class) we talk in there and we decide to start hanging out more...and by more I mean for the past 4weeks we have hung out for at least 2hours need it be me going up to her work and chillin or her coming up to my work and chillin... were together cheefin all the time...

Then Monday night rolls around she calls me and simply says "Wanna get drunk?" I (never been drunk before(kinda sad that im 18 and it was my first time)) Well Im just like "Fuck yea.... I never drank before but Ill come" So I go over to her cousins house (Who moved to Where I live) and she makes this drink and I down it in like 2 seconds (It was 75% vodka and 25% sprite...) it was in a large WhatA'Burger cup so It was ALOT for my first time well she makes me 4 more of those then Made me 2 slippery nipples and something that tasted like coffee but needless to say I was fucked up I don't remember much except going out side while she made more drinks for us and puking all over the side of the house then I remember waking up on the floor no pants or shirt on under a cover and she was on the couch asleep and her cousins were gone. then I fell asleep and 2hrs later she wakes me up... I go to school still drunk remember waking up in 7th period in my puke then going home and passing out...

So for the past 6 or 8 weeks we've always been together and yea... I asked her to homecoming this Friday and she said yes but she has made it blatantly clear that she has no interest in a boyfriend or relationship at this point... Because her last boyfriend "ruined" her so...

Basically I am just wondering does anyone think that I'll be stuck in the "FriendZone" forever and I have 0 chance with this girl or do I have a chance... and Should I make a move even tho she has already made it clear she doesn't want a relationship....

Omnirok Reviewed by Omnirok on 10-11-2007. Just friends? or something more you tell me This is a thread about me just sharing a story about being just friends... So I met this girl about 1.5/2months ago... First night we hung out I was invited by a few friends of mine and she happened to be invited to and thats when we first met it was at a putt putt from like 5PM to 2AM and we had a fucking great time but nothing special then she had to go home and we split our different ways. Next night we go to the bowling alley with those same friends they decide to leave we decide Rating: 5

[nurse maryjane]

it is what it is...just let it happen naturally....it sounds like she's into you, but is being cautious and trying to protect herself....just show her that you're a good guy and everything will fall into place in time...

[slipknotpsycho]

well.... it probably goes without saying at this point, but do NOT drink to impress her... if you wanna get drunk with her cool... but alcohol is NOT weed... it is very unforgiving, but as you said, you expereienced this first hand.... next time yal decide to get drunk i'd suggest taking it VERRRY slow... if she likes you, you don't gotta drink to impress her (which honestly is why i belive you drank so heavily.... and let me tell you, honestly it will have the exact opposite effect... especially if you're a 'lightweight' i can drink alot, and still be miserable but hold it in nad play it off.... newbies can't.... and unless she has a puke fetish... well you see where i'm going)

alcohol will also impair you in the sack... i only went on the alcohol rant becuase what you did was well... kinda stupid lol... never push your limits with it, cuz as i said, it's not anywhere near as forgiving as weeed......

as for the actual question at hand... i voted #3..... it's kinda obvious she's intrested in you... well either she's intrested in you, or she's seriously in need of friends to hang out with.... those are about the only two reasons anyone (not just girl) would hang out with you so consistantly... they either need the friend attention or they want something more from that person.


^^^^ that is a good point, but if she don't make the moves you have to... or she'll just feel you're not intrested... i don't mean come on strong... but you definately need to drop some hints....

[ceptictank]

Make the move man, just go about it like when your high, all calm/relaxed and nothing matters and you have nothing to lose

[Markass]

if you're interested in her, just hang out with her and see if she wants to mess around or something...that's likely considering she's been fucked over and is tired of that happening for now...she probably wants your penis...wait, how old is she?

[420MissHighTimes420]

I second wut slip said. Dont drink that much when your around her. You pry only needed one maybe 2 of thse to get drunk, and as girl I will tell you that a guy getting sick is a big turn off. But who cares, everyone has there bad nights, esp the first night they are drinking. Im just letting you know so it doesnt happen agian, but dont worry about it or anything.
Also I second was slip said as far as her likeing you. It might be that she really needs friends, or she really likes you. Those are the only 2 things I can think of.
It's a sticky situation because you don't want to mess up your friendship. You could ask her how she feels about you, but if it's just as a friend that could make things awkward. Even if it is more, she might be shy about telling you. who knows.
Good luck man, even if it is only a platonic relationship, she sounds like a chill ass girl. So enjoy.

[stinkyattic]

Another lifestyles of the drunk-n-stupid thread.
Y'all need to read the forum posting rules again; this isn't a drinking site, it's a cannabis site, and alcohol falls under 'other drug talk'.
So knock it off.
CLOSED!!!