Son of a bitch..

[ScaryMissMary]

Everything that can go wrong is going wrong. The asshole that still has my heart is now dating the girl he almost cheated on me with, I lost two of my best friends cause of a misundertanding, and I still have no place to live. I smoked a bowl but it made it worse, I just got aggitated and full of anxiety. I wish I could just erase him completely from my mind, like the way they do in that movie Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind. FUCK. I want to hate him, I NEED to hate him.

ScaryMissMary Reviewed by ScaryMissMary on 10-10-2007. Son of a bitch.. Everything that can go wrong is going wrong. The asshole that still has my heart is now dating the girl he almost cheated on me with, I lost two of my best friends cause of a misundertanding, and I still have no place to live. I smoked a bowl but it made it worse, I just got aggitated and full of anxiety. I wish I could just erase him completely from my mind, like the way they do in that movie Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind. FUCK. I want to hate him, I NEED to hate him. Rating: 5

[GraziLovesMary]

awww I wish there was something I could do to help! Shit, if only I could explain how I did it. I have almost no memory of my ex-girlfriend that I dated for almost four years, and theyve all been erased or suppressed in the last 6 months.

Just do me a favor and pick a good guy next time, so I dont have to worry

[VoidLivesOn]

i would suggest having sex with someone else. i heard that helps getting over someone.

i've yet to do it cause i dunno if i should be getting over my ex yet.

or you should give yourself something to look forward too. start working and save up money to buy you something really fun or maybe ever a bus ticket to visit a friend somewhere. you just gatta keep your mind occupied.

[ScaryMissMary]

No matter how much I occupy my mind he still manages to sink in.

[VoidLivesOn]

ok well go hang out with another guy. i know hanging out with the opposite sex when you should be getting over someone is seemingly a good way to get over someone, cause your like sorta putting all your energy into a new person. but that doesn't mean you gatta be serious.

or go pick a longboard and bomb a hill. if oyu didn't die you should feel like a new person.

[higher4hockey]

just give it time. eventually even the biggest hurt will fade away.

[thcbongman]

It isn't easy. Time is the only cure.

You have to keep telling yourself that you will not let Mr. Asshole fuck with your head. It's a testament of strength and character. Demons don't let memories go away, but it's up to you to find that inner strength, and persevere.

Focus on the now: Finding a place to live, and doing everything to get back on your feet. To start a new beginning to your life.

One step at a time. Don't let everything rush at you, and when you do, meditate. It'll bring you tranquility and peace. Takes some practice to get to a state where all is clear. Try it!

[deadbunny]

Like the last couple of posts, time is your answer. After a while you'll look back and have a good laugh at yourself. And we'll all be here laughing along side with ya!

Been there and I know what you mean. Just give it time.

[420MissHighTimes420]

I thought I could never get over my last bf, I got really attached to him, and I let him drive me nuts. But after only a month or so of dating other guys Im finally like 80% over him. It makes me upset wen i look at his facebook and see him with other girls and stuff, but hey ive got other guys too so it's all good. Just give it time and you will look back on it and wonder why you cared so much. I know how hard it is, but you just gotta move on.
Sorry to hear about your friends and not having anywhere to live. Im sleepin on a coach right now. I feel your pain. But things will get better. Just keep your head up. As hard as it can be.

[Unknown American]

Well breaking up is a bummer. But it has happened to everyone reading this post. The fact is as everyone has already pointed out- in time you will get over this.

Being without a place to stay sucks. Since you live in California I can't help you out. But I am sure you will find a place to stay for a while.

Remember the best revenge is doing well in your life despite the assholes.