Quote Originally Posted by kronick
but i say a lot of dumb shit...and i dont wanna scare them away...but if i dont talk they wont wanna talk to me....CIRCLE OF DEATH I TELL YA!
there is a problem there. "i dont wanna scare them away". you know how a lot of guys get a lot of girls even if they aren't really good looking? well the majority of them will tell you that the only reason why they are so successful with girls is the fact that they can take a "no" and not get all upset about it. i know where you are coming from. even now if there is a girl i like and she doesnt like me, i get kinda depressed about it. i cant control it, but just think that there are tons of other girls out there that will make you just as happy as this certain girl would. you think im good with girls?.....i havent even had a real girlfriend, ive never had sex, and ive only kissed one girl. ive probably saw about 4 girls in my life, not ever becoming their bf, but the point is that they all have made me feel the same way. i liked them all the same even though some of those girls have been way more attractive than others. i was depressed for a long time because i thought that i couldnt get girls to like me. i even took prozac for a while (actually only 2 days), only to realize that i was making this way too big of a deal. trust me there is someone out there for you and me and everyone else. it doesnt matter how many girls you date before them because once you find her, those other girls wont even exist anymore. so try and not worry about it. damn im tryin to get ur self-esteem up hopefully its workin. also i wanted to comment on you saying that they wont wanna talk to you if you dont first. thats the way it is with all guys. except if you are just a really good looking guy, then girls will talk to you first, but most of us arent. im not. if you want a relationship, you have to give so much more than what you recieve. and with the shy thing, i work at office depot so im always talkin to people i dont know. this helped me open up. sometimes i see girls i used to be terrified of that i went to school with. when i see them now, i can usually talk to them without becoming nervous. they dont say it out loud, but i know they are thinkin......."wow he sure has changed since hs".